I think there is a misconception that positive energy guarantees positive outcome.
But sometimes shit happens. To All of Us. It’s unpleasant, it’s stinky and it’s not fun. But when you fully love yourself (you know the mantra here - Deeply, Madly, Completely) you will process it through your being - it will not makes its home in you.
You will see it for what it is - a shitty situation (pun intended) and do whatever it takes to let it go. That us what you wish for your most cherished best friend, isn’t it? And that is who you are - Your Best Friend. Love yourself enough to let go of what doesn’t serve you, of what doesn’t hold you up, of what doesn’t value you. Love yourself Deeply, Madly and Completely.